A textbook definition of a clique (in Adolescence by Laurence Steinberg) is a group of two to twelve people (but more likely around five or six), with similar interests and similar backgrounds. The members of a clique probably eat lunch together, talk and hang out together, and have close friendships within the group. They’ve probably got something in common, like being into drama at school, or maybe playing in the band. Also, they probably have other things in common beyond what they do in their free time. Members of cliques generally have similar backgrounds (things like a shared culture, race, sex, or class). Chances are, you’re part of a clique, or you “float” between different cliques.

If you look up popularity in the dictionary, you’ll probably see something like “the state of being widely admired, accepted, or sought after.” Well sure, but you knew that already! It’s kind of strange how one group of friends becomes the popular clique. Usually it’s a group of athletic guys, physically attractive and sociable girls, and whoever makes it onto their good side. There’s often a lot of shifting in the group. You probably notice this the most during the change from middle school or junior high to high school. Some drop out of the group, and others take a step up on the social ladder.