Chores are simply a fact of life.  If we didn’t do chores, we wouldn’t be able to enjoy life the rest of the time and we would likely be living very unhealthy lives.  Just imagine the filth that accumulates in just a few days of leaving dishes unwashed and floors un-swept.  Now think about what it would be like if we never did those things… 

Some teens assume that their parents will take care of the chores- and some parents graciously do.  But really, your parents probably hate doing chores just as much as you do!  You’re a member of your family- you share the space, get clothes dirty, eat off the dishes…so you should also make sure you do your part to help clean up.

Rather than just doing a chore here or there, get in the habit of dividing chores or rotating with your parents and siblings.  It would stink to be the one who has to take out the trash every single week, so take turns.  Talk about it beforehand so that everyone knows what their job is.  If there is one chore that you think you just are really bad at or really can’t stand, see if someone else is willing to do it and you can take one they hate.  The important thing is that all the chores are getting done- and not just by one person.

Lastly, fear not! Doing your chores is not a thankless task- though the rewards may not be instantaneous.  It’s the little things like taking your chores seriously that will show how responsible you are to your parents and will gradually earn their trust and admiration.  If you show you’re trustworthy in these parts of your life, they will have more confidence in you later on.  It’s also just a great way to show that you love them…without having to say it out loud.